Relationships

Monumental shift when I found a girl

I decided to do a Hypnotherapy session with Steve because I was feeling really bad. I was in a bad space, I was drinking too much and I was anxious and depressed all the time. I found myself at the cross roads in my life I had to do something quickly because I didn’t see any future.

Something used to stop me from talking to girls in bars and clubs so I used to drink to cope with the anxiety. I never really knew why until the last year but I had some sort of beliefs like “I don’t want to be alone” which was actually causing this problem when I went out.

After years of not being able to be in a relationship I was seeing a girl for 4 months which has been huge since I have not been in a relationship with a girl for so long and now we are really good friends. I also quit my job and now work for myself and I have stopped sharing my place with a flatmate and recently moved into a new apartment for the first time in 10 years.

I have stopped drinking excessively and essentially very little bothers me anymore. All my anxieties are gone and I am pretty neutral in relating to my life. In fact I have been able to accept myself and enjoy life being at peace just content and happy.

In relationships when I have a hiccup I now have a much better recovery time. I simply don’t get upset like a used to. In the past a used to take weeks maybe even months to recover from issues that happen in relationship.

In getting to the bottom of a very key belief I had “being unlovable and I don’t want to be alone” everything else started to change when I was able to get rid of these beliefs and feelings forever.

I have recommended Steve to lots of people! He has helped me completely turn around my life. I don’t think you will be able to find anyone else in Australia that is as good as him.

Rod is a 45 year old Education developer.

 

Seeing Steve has been the best thing I have ever done in my life.

I was on my own with two kids after a difficult separation. I had years of abuse from my ex he had emotionally pushed me to the ground and I had no shred of self-esteem left. My self-image was terrible, I thought my body was ugly and I had hated my boobs all my life.

It was after the session that I started to really recognise just how poor my self-esteem, my self-worth and poor my self-body image really was During the session I felt all the fear, anxiety, stress and depression that I had been holding for so long literally come out my toes and fingers. Steve suggested that following the session that day I would have the best sleep ever. And I did! Since my anxiety and depression has gone I have been able to stop taking the Zoloft with the consent of my GP. I just don’t feel like I need the medication anymore.

Marie Clarke 52 year with 2 children is a Sales Manager at a Plumbing Company came to HTH because of her separation.

 

Solving the relationships puzzle

Relationships can be complex, difficult and confronting.  They can also be sublime, loving, nurturing and a place where one can grow and develop. Many people get married or committed to a relationship early in life and have little idea about how to equip themselves with the strategies that are required for a successful relationship. Together with this the media plays havoc with what should be the perfect relationship; the fact of the matter is that when two people come together with their differing expectations, beliefs and ways of relating many things can and do go wrong.

We understand this complexity and all the issues that can and do go wrong. Many of the conflicts that occur in relationship can be dealt with at the sub conscious mind since most of our ways of relating have been modelled in our imprint years (0-7 years) when we have no capability to reject what is inappropriate of wrong.

Getting the relationship you want

Maybe you just attract the wrong person and you can see the pattern in your life. Maybe you just don’t know how to relate to others in a way that attracts the right people. Perhaps you have your foot in your mouth as soon as it opens and it just doesn’t get the result you intend. Perhaps you are almost phobic and even thinking about talking  to another stranger terrifies you.

We know how to help.

Just find me a friend

Few or no friends ccan feel lonely or isolating. There are limiting behaviours that stop or inhibit us from creating the friendships we desire. We all need friends someone to share life wit,h our experiences, our dreams, and our problems.

Give us what you have and we will get you on the right path.

 

Depression Hypnotherapy

Do you suffer from any of these symptoms?

• Total lack of motivation?
• Emotional breakdowns: can’t stop crying?
• Can’t leave the house?
• Life feels like an enormous weight you carry around?
• A feeling that life isn’t worth living?

You’re not the only one! Depression is one of the most common symptoms of modern life – especially MODERN life, and we say “symptom” because that’s what we consider it to be – a treatable, manageable (and expected) symptom of the day to day stresses of modern lifestyles that can be treated effectively through anti-depression hypnotherapy.

The stress of work, relationships, debt and professional commitments will send most of us into a depressed state at some point in our lives. This is not unusual.

In fact, research shows that 75% of people naturally come out of depression within a few days or weeks, but you may be part of the remaining 25% who can become unable to function day to day without medication.

Anti-Depressant Medication

Anthony Robbins famously said that in America depression is seen as a Prozac deficiency and not something that can be removed, no doubt thanks to the extensive marketing by the makers of anti-depressant drugs that tells us ‘everything will be ok’ if we take their drug.

On the contrary, relieving depression in the long term requires getting to the source of the problem. Treating the symptoms with pharmaceuticals will only encourage the feelings of depression and anxiety to return unless you take more and more of them. There is no clear remedy in sight…

Depression hypnotherapy acts at the root of the cause of your depression. Without reliving negative experiences, our professional hypnotherapists use effective relaxing and meditative hypnotherapy treatment to cure your depression faster than you could imagine.

Breaking Old Patterns

Is your depression forcing you to live the same pattern every day just to get by? This repetition continues to create the same result – more depression – but most of us have no idea where to start with breaking this cycle. Each day with depression is like quicksand, you don’t have the energy to fight but feel yourself sinking a little more every day, eventually you don’t even care.

You can break this cycle before it ruins your relationships or career, and we can teach you the skills to do this through the proven curative power of anti-depression hypnotherapy.

To help you overcome depression we start by teaching you to put the past, present and future into their true perspective through our meditative anti-depression hypnotherapy, so you can start enjoying the life you deserve.

Men don’t cry and they certainly don’t get depressed!

Peter is a 38 year old medical practitioner who came along for depression.

At the time when I went to see Steve I was magnifying things, everything was hard work and a chore. My sister picked this up and since she is a therapist she urged me to take some action – despite what was happening for me no one else in the family had any idea what was going on.

I came from a place where tough men don’ cry so I never addressed it. After all I believed that I couldn’t be depressed ‘I’m a man and men don’t get depressed!’

I was drinking and self-medicating as much as I could and because of that I was missing work and I was barely holding on.I didn’t want to go onto anti-depressant medication because of the stigma involved in that.  So I took the herbal suppliments to get by. But what I was doing was pushing everything to the side and I was on the line between going down and barely functioning.

I was even having suicidal thoughts which started to shock me.

Steve asked me how he could help? I told him that I was depressed and he said that he good at obliterating depression! I thought OK, WOW! As I come from a medical background that kind of response was a paradigm shift so I thought OK  let’s do it!  During the session I thought that nothing was happening since he was just talking to me. I liked him straight way – he spoke my language and I felt really confident with him.

My depression has definitely gone as well as the panic attacks.

It’s been the best $400 I have ever spent without a shadow of a doubt.

Job done in 1 session with HTH after 2.5 yrs with Psychiatrist!

Dave works in Corporate Education and is  aged 42 years. In his words he says that he had been going to a psychiatrist for 2.5 years on a weekly basis with minimal or no improvement. I came across NLP in a self-help book “Awaken the Giant Within” by Anthony Robbins.

Dave had been going to a Psychiatrist for over 2.5 years for weekly visits with no result.

For all intents and purposes I looked like a successful guy. I was in a great job I was earning over 100k a year and I was the life of the party.  The fact of the matter was that I was just going through the motions of living instead of truly living and I was aware of that. There was a big façade for the world to see.

When I first met Steve he struck me as being calm, centred and balanced. There was a sense of directness that instantly let me know that this session was going to be different from anything I had experienced before. He came across as highly knowledgeable about life experiences and that he meant business. It’s like Steve could see straight into my soul and I experienced a direct connection with him straight away.

With my self-diagnosis of feeling stuck in a rut I was asked what I needed help with and I offered procrastination. He said straight off the bat that people who have procrastination don’t turn up 10 minutes early and wait for their appointment time. This was exactly what I had done. I thought this was a great observation and immediately I knew that he knew that procrastination wasn’t the reason that I was there and that the doors opened up to discovering what was really underpinning this.

I was very surprised at how rapid, instant and permanent the change was.

It was like I was able to just let go of the things that were holding me back in my life. It was freeing for me to disconnect from my personal history and drop the baggage.

In particular, I was carrying around a lot of baggage in relation to a failed business some 10 years earlier. It seemed like every waking and sleeping moment was hell. It affected my self-esteem and subsequently my personal and professional relationships.
I’m looking forward to next year and beyond as the goals and aspirations I had as a teenager are re-appearing, looking real again and within reach!